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I Grew Up With River Birch Trees

On our farm in Doylestown Pa., River Birch trees are the first trees I planted when I was a small child. My father said this is a plant that is hard to plant screw up. He was right. Green side up was his motto. I can't remember any ever not surviving. They are survivors. You will too find this tree an amazing addition to your landscape. Birch trees are prized for their outstanding bark characteristics and their graceful delicate foliage. Numerous species and cultivars are used in landscapes,...

Stress Can Make Your Body Run Like A Broken Down Car

If asked if your job is stressful, chances are you would answer with an emphatic "Boy is it ever"! Work is by far the leading source of stress in our lives. Nine out of ten people say they experience high levels of stress several times a week. And one out of four of us have high stress levels every day. What you may not know is that your stress from work may, in fact, be affecting your health. Stress affects the body in many different ways. Some kinds of stress are beneficial. Others...

I Can't Believe You Said That! Dealing with Controversy

There's a very fine line that we all have to walk when we want to make an argument about a controversial subject: On one hand, you want to limit the controversy as much as you can, because too much can lead to a lot of problems, ranging from flaring tempers to hurt feelings to broken noses! On the other hand, controversial subjects are usually the most significant and, many times, the most useful to discuss. Many people try to handle controversy by simply avoiding it. Unfortunately, this...

Should You Use Rhetorical Questions?

Rhetorical questions are probably as old as public speaking itself. Like anything else, this technique has its uses, but can be very tiresome if used overmuch or in the wrong circumstances. Remember that a rhetorical question is simply a question asked that doesn't require an answer from another person. So think about it, when would such a question be asked? In my opinion, there are two different times when this kind of question is asked. First, you ask it when you want the audience to...

For What Purpose?

So you want to be successful. For What Purpose? When I first heard that question I said, "You've got to be crazy, to have a lot of money. What else?" This was quickly followed by the question, For What Purpose? I have to tell you that I went dead silent. My mental wheels were spinning. My eyes glazed over into what can best be described as a "thousand yard" stare. Until that point in time I hadn't really considered what was my purpose for anything. I thought I knew the "why" of what...

YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY OF A LIFETIME!

You have the opportunity of a lifetime. That sounds like marketing hype because you have heard it so often, doesn't it? Think about it this way: you have the opportunity to live one lifetime. Does that make a difference? How are you using your opportunity? Are you doing the things you want to be doing in the ways that you want to be doing them? If not, why not? What are you viewing as obstacles to having the life you want? Are the obstacles you perceive real or just convenient? So often...

Get Thyself A Mentor

*************************************** Get Thyself a Mentor - by Sue Dyson *************************************** While there are many secrets to success, they are only secrets until you know about them. I'm about to let you in on a little known "secret" shared by many successful people. Ask any person who has already succeeded in their chosen field, and they could likely provide you with the name of at least one other person who has inspired them in their success. This is the process...

Falling Out of Love with Wholesale Warehouse Discount Club Stores

I used to love the thought of going to the local wholesale warehouse club, where the products are stacked up to the warehouse ceiling and the shopping carts are brimming with rolls of toilet paper and cases of cheese snacks. Where else could you pay a memberbership fee of a thirty or forty dollars per year and have access to products by the caseload at a discount? After joining such a club I realized that not all the prices were cheaper than the non-membership store just across the street....

Key to Excellent Communication: Anticipation

Excellent communication. It's what we're all after, when the first rule of communication is to assume you've been misunderstood. We generally work very hard to express what we have in mind, and in giving instructions to go over each one step-by-step. We also try and listen carefully, and to repeat back what we think we've heard to be sure. And if we're selling, we try an anticipate objections. But there's one part that's very helpful we often leave out. I learned it from my Dad, a great...

Find The Courage To Know The Truth

Find The Courage To Know The Truth Helaine Iris © 2004 "Making the decision to have a child--it's momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body." Elizabeth Stone My daughter amazes me. She's just been through a roller coaster growth cycle. I'm going to share this vulnerable, recent event from her life that has beautifully illustrates a powerful life lesson. I have her permission to share this story with you. It all started about six...

How to Thrive with Change

There's nothing more disconcerting, nothing you can count on more, and nothing more valuable to learn how to prepare for than change. I'm not talking about preparing for each individual change as it comes up. This is an inefficient and reactive way to operate. I mean preparing your SELF proactively for the inevitable changes you will encounter throughout your lifetime so that you remain prepared as part of who you are. This is about emotional intelligence, or competency, and this is...

Get Legal, or Get Cheated!

"Get Legal, or Get Cheated!" Are you an Ecommerce business owner, or do you just seem to be one? There is a difference, and that difference will hurt your business. When you sell products on the Internet, just like anyplace else, you need to be buying those products from a direct wholesale source. Either the factory itself, or a factory authorized distributor. If you're not, you're paying middleman markups that chip away at your profits until you're barely making enough to pay your hosting fees....

Ways To Beat Rip Off Britain & Start Paying Far Less...For Everything

It's a well known fact that Britain is one of the most expensive countries in the world to live in. Whatever we buy - whether it's clothes and electronics to cars, computers, DVDs or food - in the UK we seem to have "settled for paying more". When most people shop they go into a normal retail store and buy a product at a price that they consider to be standard. Well let me tell you, the prices we pay especially in the UK would not be tolerated in most other places in the world. So is...

Ticket Scaplers, Toby Keith Concerts, and the Law

Thinking about buying Toby Keith tickets online? Don't get taken to the cleaners...basic tips on how to avoid problems with ticket sellers and the law. Tip #1 When possible, buy from a reputable agent. That goes without saying. First, go to a place like Ticketmaster, type in your desired artist in the search bar. They will give you a list of places and events in the area you want. Depending on location, you'll see different ticket options. For example, at the Pensacola Civic Center,...

Future Technology Quality may reflect past glories.

The Dark Side of the Moon, The Universe and everything. Last time we saw hardware turning somewhat towards mobile phones, with PCs still firmly entrenched. Today we will look at the future of non hardware based things to come. Increasingly, things are bought ready programmed and we have little influence over what we have bought or use, just initial choice of supplier and package. So we are being gently pushed down pre-defined paths, with conforming to compatibility being paramount, especially...
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